How To Be Lucky In Life So You Become Successful And Achieve Your Dreams
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Hello its Neil Ball your personal development, and internet marketing coach from www.WorkWithNeilBall.com.
I am going to talk about why some people are Lucky In Life & More Successful than other people. First of all I would like to thank you, for watching this video, and sharing it and commenting, and subscribing as well. And also thanks for Tweeting it on Twitter and sharing it on Facebook. Many people believe that some people are luckier in life than they are. Or they believe that they don’t have any luck themselves.
But is there actually such a thing as being lucky? Are some people fortunate enough to actually be luckier and blessed with some mysterious predisposition towards dependable good fortune? Is the grass just greener for some people? What does that mean for everyone else? Is lady luck always going to conspire against you because you are doomed to face a life that is less fortunate? Or is the concept of luck an illusion that has been born out of some mystical random circumstances? Or is there hope for everyone and the concept of luck is something that we can influence and create for ourselves? Henry Ford said “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t–you’re right”. Later in this video this will make more sense to you. Maybe you are acutely aware of other apparent people’s luck and your (perceived) lack of it. Perhaps you searched on Google for something like ‘how to get lucky’ because you’re feeling that you want more luck in your life. Maybe in your life you feel like luck conspires against you and there always seems to be something going wrong. Misfortune always seems to strike when you are least ready, and you are least able to handle it and you end up cursing your bad luck. May be your friends seem luckier than you. Everywhere you look you see things that seem to be stacked against you. You always seem to miss the opportunity. Good fortune never seems to come your way. May be you will win the lottery one day.
Maybe you are waiting for the luck of the dice to roll your way for a while. You must be well over due some luck – right? Do you feel that you deserve a bit of luck? Something for you to consider how, when, and where does somebody qualify to be ‘entitled’ to a bit of luck? When you hear what I am about to say, I may lose you because you might not agree with what I say and you may not accept it initially. If that is the case I would suggest you listen to all of the video in any case, because it holds the secret to you becoming luckier in life.
The hard part, if you are one of the people who blames your current situation in life on bad luck, is that you need to realise that your own best thinking has got you to where you are in your life right now. You may not like where you are in your life right now, but you are have to accept responsibility for it. Often the difficulty is that friends and relatives may feel the same about life and may even reinforce your blame, shame and excuses that you use. You need to stop your pity party and stop using blame, shame and excuses. There is a saying that says that if you point a finger, then you three fingers will point back at you. You may disagree with what I have just said, but until you accept responsibility your life will not change. You may be prepared to fiercely defend the excuses, blame and shame, which means you will probably never change your life because you are trapped by your own thinking. Sometimes it is difficult for people to see this in themselves. There is a saying that says that ‘pigs don’t know that pigs stink’. Many unlucky people are also less willing to put as much effort in to making there life luckier. They may work hard, but they don’t do the right things to make their own life go the way that they want it to. Many Unlucky people are often unwilling to look at themselves and their own actions as the cause of their bad luck, and they will point their fingers elsewhere.
The majority of people resist change and do the same things every day or every week in their life for years. They get out of bed, they get ready for work, they commute to work, they work for somebody else for 8, 9, or ten hours a day and then they come home, and they take care of the kids and the family obligations and then they go to bed and they start all over again, with the same routine, five days a week for years. Most people live for the weekends, to get away from a life that in many cases they can’t stand in the first place. Then on Monday morning, it’s back to the same routine over again.
Luck in life is an illusion. Ultimately it’s your perception that makes you think you are lucky or not. The messages that you give yourself from your own beliefs and the things that people say to you will make the difference and you have to change those messages. Obviously it is not possible to control every event that happens in life. But by getting out of the habit of blaming everything on luck and replacing it with successful habits you can mould and change your future. Once you dismiss the illusion of luck, and you believe that you have the ability to make your life better, you will become empowered to the point that you will make your own luck. You need to realise that life is not happening to you, you are happening to your life. You need to be proactive and eager to embrace the challenges of life with a positive attitude, free of negativity and free of the powerless association with the alleged luck so that you can live your life to your potential. Then when opportunities do come along, you don’t desperately need them, and you will be fine without them. Also you need to stop whining about your lack of success and fortune. Self-pity will attract bad luck for certain. When you whine, you send out the wrong energy and attract people who want to join in reinforcing your whinging. Miserable and negative people love each other’s company. Also at the same time positive people and opportunities will speedily pass you by.
Make sure that you aren’t the sort of person that tots up things that go wrong and peppers your conversations with “Now this has happened, and also now that has happened” Your life ‘filter’ will end up corrupted with a negative bias on inevitable challenges that life presents, and as a result the supposed ‘luck’ will simply pass you by because you will be oblivious to it. You need to fill your life with successful habits – I have produced a video that gives a list of successful habits, that most highly successful follow. Stop saying ‘I Can’t’ and start saying ‘How can I’ this small shift in your mind-set will move your brain from ruling out the possibility of there being another way, to it trying to find another way.
Once you accept that your own mindset is creating the so called bad luck, you need to put all of your energy in changing what is wrong in your life by changing your mindset and opportunity will come your way. You also need to upgrade your thinking, because as I said if you only use the thinking that has got you to where you are right now in life, then if you don’t learn about new concepts and ideas, then you will stay stuck where you are – Because you don’t know what you don’t know. If you feel that you are just one of those people who only seems to attract bad luck, and you feel that you are just the unluckiest person on the block, you will benefit from some training that I have at the end of this video that will provide you with an upgrade to your thinking, that you need and provide an opportunity for you to improve your life.
So, far from your life being run by some mystical power that randomly deals luck to you, you in fact you create your own luck and you have to accept responsibility for your own life. When you do this you will break the cycle of your so called bad luck. A lot of highly successful people have an amazing ability to have repeated success in their lives. Why is that? Many successful people will say that luck is a funny thing because the harder that they work, the luckier they get. The truth is that the people who say that highly successful are lucky are jealous of the success that they have achieved through hard work and sacrifice. Success is untouched by luck, and is only the natural results of your thoughts and your intentions, decisions, and actions.
The evidence seems to support this for many well-known successful people such as Richard Branson, Thomas Edison, Arnold Schwarzenegger, James Dyson, Magic Johnson, Oprah Winfrey to name but a few. Successful people are not afraid of failure. In fact failure is part of success. In order to know what works you have to know what doesn’t. There are a number of well known and financially successful people who have also failed along the way and lost everything and managed to comeback and make a fortune again. Well known successful people who have managed to do this include Donald Trump, Walt Disney, Henry J. Heinz, Henry Ford and many more. So what is going on? How do these people have all of the so called luck?
I am sure you must have heard it said ‘You make your own luck’. Is that actually true? Is it true? then what is the secret? There is a saying that says “The grass is always greener where you water it.” Most highly successful people will do whatever it takes, for however long it takes to get the success that they want in their lives. Also they don’t quit when they don’t succeed with something that they are doing. Successful people are quicker to make decisions, and are slow to change their mind. Whereas people who aren’t successful, are slow to make decisions, and quick to change their minds and that is a fundamental difference. Highly successful people don’t allow other people to stifle their desire to succeed and create a better life.
Highly successful people, when they need to, are also prepared to give up a lot of the things that most people are not prepared to part with such as watching the TV, and spending time with people who only want to talk about celebrities, and complain about how they are not making enough money, and the economy, and how tough their life is, and how their job is in jeopardy, and how they wished that they could go on holiday, and have a much better life with less stress and financial pressures. And instead successful people use the time that other people waste on this type of unproductive activity on improving their lives and achieving the goals that they set themselves on living to their potential and making things happen in their lives. They find solutions and ways of moving forward to make what they are doing and their lives better. Most people will give up when the going gets tough, whereas highly successful people will find solutions and they stick at it and they develop the skills that are going to allow them to achieve the results and the goals that they have set for themselves in the first place. People who are not successful will not find the same so called luck because they will buy their own excuses and they will end up quitting. There is a saying that goes like this, “Those that last, always finish first”. This is really saying that if you don’t quit you will end up a winner and successful in whatever you want to succeed in.
You need to stick around for long enough for you to develop the skills that you need to allow you to actually achieve the results and the goals that you have set for yourself though. It’s a really simple formula to create your own luck just don’t quit like most people do and don’t buy your own excuses. Whether your goal is to be successful in a job or in your own business, you will need to work with other people. If you can’t develop yourself, you will never be able to develop other people and lead them. You must think as you intend to be, when you achieve your goals. You must play at the top. If you are taking your life and your success seriously then that is where you need to be positioned. By doing this you will see and attract the opportunities that are needed to get there. If you have big goals, then you need to think big. Small thinking is only going to get small results.
Even a turtle has to stick its head out to get ahead. You need to stick you head and go for it. When you know what you want to achieve and you are clear on what you want, and why you want it then you have to be prepared to learn the skills that are required to succeed and achieve your goal. Be careful not to say the most dangerous sentence in the English language – “I already know that” when you are advised by someone who has the success that you already want that you need to learn from.
You then have to be willing to give it everything that you have to succeed without ever pointing a finger and blaming, making stories or excuses. You have to take responsibility and be a leader for yourself so that you can then be a leader for others. One of the things that sets apart many of the people who are so called lucky is entrepeneurship. People like Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Richard Branson, Donald Trump and Mark Zuckerberg. These people are in a small percentage of people who have created their own success by pursuing their dreams and creating their own businesses. Obviously it is possible to be successful if you have job but ultimately you are probably more constrained. For most people to create the success that they dream of requires a powerful decision and they need to stick their necks out and become an entrepreneur. By doing this you will also create a life of freedom. Success leaves clues and if you look at any one who is successful in life, you will see that they have many successful habits that unsuccessful people don’t have. If you truly want success in your life so that the so called luck comes your way, then you need to position your life so that you are able to take advantage of opportunities. You need to take your success seriously and play to win. As much as you can, you need to play from the top, so that you bring in as much success as you can. This will attract people who know that you are serious. Don’t let your small thinking hold you back. If you think small you will get small results.
You need to be clear and know why you want the success that you want and what it will do for you. You have to believe that is possible and achievable. Then you need to give everything that you have got no excuses, no finger pointing no stories and blaming. As I said earlier, you need to be a leader for yourself so that in the future you can lead others. You need to stay green, and always be learning and also encourage others to be successful. You are going to need to learn new skill to succeed and you are going to have to associate with the right people to make your success more likely. To find out more how I can help you with the right information to enable you to find the success that you and your family deserve, so that you can do what you want to, when you want to go to
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